I am an 18 year old girl who has not orgasmed yet, but know sheh as the potential too
. I am very positive that one day I will have an orgasm if I maintain a positive attitude and continue to explore myself physically. My question is-I have been having sex since November, and masturbating since I was around 12 years old (although for much extended periods of time now), and since I do not orgasm, often I stop masturbating and I feel a very heavy feeling down there (due to the blood I suppose)-is this healthy, and does it impede my ability to orgasm?
To make things clear- I always masturbated with a pillow when I was young and when I felt the first "rush" of pleasure I would stop-I had no idea what an orgasm was or how to reach it, I would always just stop and I conditioned my body to get used to this. Thus, when I first found out what an orgasm was, I tried to continue to keep going through these rushes but it is hard for me to train mybody to get out of my old routine